There’s a reason she’s wearing green.
Not just because it’s regal. Not just because it turns heads.
But because green is the color of growth—and sis, you’ve been growing in silence for a long time.
Behind every smile is a woman who’s been pruning pain, uprooting doubt, and watering herself in places no one sees.
This post is for you—the woman who’s still healing while showing up.
The one who feels unseen in her becoming.
The one who is tired of being strong but too proud to break.
Here’s what I need you to know today:
You are not behind. You are becoming.
We don’t talk enough about the awkward in-between—the space between who you were and who you’re becoming. It’s not always pretty. Sometimes it’s lonely. Sometimes it’s confusing. But it’s sacred.
Your softness is not regression. Your pause is not failure.
Healing isn’t linear. Some days, you bloom. Some days, you break. And both are holy.
Let this be your reminder that you don’t have to rush.
You don’t have to prove.
You don’t have to shrink just to keep others comfortable.
Here are 3 gentle ways to hold space for your own growth:
1. Stop apologizing for needing time.
Healing takes time—and anyone who can’t honor that doesn’t deserve front-row access to your evolution.
2. Journal your progress, not just your pain.
Write down the wins—big or small. That day you got out of bed. That time you said no. That moment you chose peace over proving. These are milestones too.
3. Celebrate the woman you’re becoming—even if she’s still becoming.
You don’t have to wait until the “after” picture to clap for yourself. Celebrate the during. The trying. The becoming. Because that’s where the real magic happens.
Your story doesn’t have to be finished to be beautiful.
So wear your green.
Take up space.
And bloom wildly—even in the places no one claps.
If this post spoke to the part of you that’s been quietly evolving, leave a comment and tell us one thing you’re proud of yourself for today.
Then, share this post with someone else who’s still becoming—we’re growing together, one soft step at a time.
